Unlike traditional buttercream, this Fluffy Vanilla Frosting is silky smooth, much fluffier and far less sweet. The texture is closer to whipped cream, but unlike cream, this Frosting is stable for days. It pipes like a dream, as featured in Vanilla Cupcakes, and is straightforward to make.
Made without icing sugar / powdered sugar, this is actually an old fashioned frosting called “Ermine Frosting”. If you’ve never heard of it before, the ingredients and method will intrigue you!

SNAPSHOT: My Secret Fluffy Vanilla Frosting
Texture: Light and fluffy. Sits between buttercream and whipped cream, but more towards lightness of whipped cream. 100% smooth.
Sweetness and richness: Much less sweet than buttercream with 60% less sugar. In reality it is quite rich because it uses 225g/2 sticks of butter but it doesn’t taste rich because of the very fluffy, whipped cream-like texture.
Uses: Piped or spread onto cakes and cupcakes, or used in place of cream to dollop onto or on the side.
How it sets: At room temperature, it’s soft and fluffy but firm enough to be piped into tall swirls. In the fridge, it will set and become firmer, but not hard like butter. This frosting does not get a crust.
Storage: Keep covered in airtight container or cake dome. On counter on mild days up to about 22°C/71°F. Refrigerate on warmer days that makes butter melt.
Best served at: room temperature. If too cold, the frosting is firmer than ideal.
My secret Fluffy Vanilla Frosting
I call this my “secret” Vanilla Frosting because it’s not a widely known type of frosting and people are always flabbergasted when I tell them how it’s made using butter, milk, flour and sugar.
It’s my best all-rounder that’s a hit with everyone. Take a classic buttercream, in all its rich, sweet glory, and a lightly sweetened vanilla whipped cream, and this Vanilla Frosting sits squarely in the middle.
But unlike buttercream, it’s 100% silky smooth. And unlike whipped cream which deflates within hours, this Vanilla Frosting will hold a tall piped swirl for days and days.
This looks and pipes like buttercream, but it’s WAY less sweet and rich!
This frosting is actually an old fashioned frosting called Ermine Frosting. Also known as boiled-milk frosting, roux frosting and mock cream, none of these names sound particularly flash nor do they capture the magic of this frosting that has a cult following. Some declare it as the best frosting in the world!

About this Fluffy Vanilla Frosting
Though the proper name of this frosting is Ermine Frosting, I’m going to continue to call it Fluffy Vanilla Frosting because that’s exactly what it is – and it sounds a lot more flattering than the real name!😂
The method by which it is made will sound highly unusual: hot milk, flour and sugar is cooked on the stove until thickened into a thick custard texture, then once cool it becomes a thoroughly unappetising looking bowl of gluey-jelly which is then whipped into butter.

And this is when the ugly duckling transforms into a beautiful swan. Because suddenly, you’re staring into a bowl of what looks like whipped cream. Except….. you haven’t used cream at all. You touch it and know that it’s firm enough to pipe into sky-high swirls. You taste it, and it’s silky smooth. A cross between buttercream and whipped cream!

What you need for this Fluffy Vanilla Frosting
All you need is butter, flour, milk, sugar and vanilla. Flour?? I hear you query. YES. That is what thickens this into a frosting texture. I promise you will not detect even the faintest bit of flour once finished – not in texture and certainly not taste.

How to make my secret Less-Sweet Fluffy Vanilla Frosting
First, we make the roux. It’s just like how we start creamy-sauce savoury foods like Mac and Cheese – except it’s sweet, and we take it much further until it’s very thick.

Milk, sugar, flour – Stir the sugar and flour in a dry saucepan over medium heat – this just toasts the sugar lightly to bring out some flavour. Then slowly pour the warm milk in as you whisk (this avoids lumps)
Cook over medium heat until it thickens in a thick dolloping custard. The range of thickness possible is actually quite broad – I’ve made it way thicker and it still worked perfectly. In fact, the frosting holds its structure longer, and it pipes with sharper, more defined edges even though it is just as fluffy. Just don’t take it off when it’s still watery.
Scrape it into a bowl (“it” being a roux);
Cover roux with cling wrap, pressing onto the surface to prevent a skin from forming (or use paper if you’re plastic adverse) then very importantly, allow to fully cool otherwise it will melt the butter. It will become like a thick, pasty, thoroughly unappetising jelly and at this stage you will start doubting me. Have faith!
Cooling the roux / making ahead – I usually cool on counter for 20 minutes then refrigerate for 30 minutes or so to speed things up but don’t let it get fridge cold because otherwise it won’t mix together well with the room temp butter (because the temperatures are too different). You can also leave it overnight in the fridge but take it out about 1 hour prior to dechill it and bring to room temperature.
Now, we whip it up like any other frosting.

5. Beat butter until creamy – just for a couple of minutes. We don’t need it to become aerated because we will be whipping the combined mixture like you do whipped cream and at this stage it will fluff up more;
6. Add dollops of the roux, beating as you go. Take about 1 minute to add all the roux in, this will ensure your Frosting stays smooth;
7. Beat, beat, beat – Add vanilla and a pinch of salt for flavour, then beat for another 2 to 3 minutes, just like you’re whipping up a big bowl of cream; and
8. Voila! Your Fluffy Vanilla Frosting is done!

How to use this Fluffy Vanilla Frosting
Spreading and piping
Spread it onto cakes (like Vanilla Cake) and cupcakes Vanilla Cupcakes or Chocolate Cupcakes).
Or transfer to a piping bag and pipe sky-high swirls, as pictured throughout this post (Wilton 2D tip).
In fact, this frosting was the traditional frosting used for Red Velvet Cake! It was only in modern times that cream cheese frosting became the frosting of choice for Red Velvet.
You can pipe sky-high mounds of this frosting onto cupcakes, and you won’t find it sickly sweet like with buttercream!
Flavours and colouring
Treat it like your everyday buttercream – this frosting can be tinted and flavoured with concentrated flavouring.
To make it Chocolate flavoured, just whip in 1/4 cup cocoa powder at end. Melted chocolate doesn’t work as well because it weighs it down.
Note: I haven’t tried using fresh citrus like lemon, lime and orange to ensure it doesn’t split.
Storage
The butter in this frosting will require refrigeration if the temperature is warm enough for the butter to start softening – this causes the frosting to droop. I find that up to about 23°/73°F, this frosting is fine out on the counter.
If you are forced to refrigerate, make sure you take cakes out 1 1/2 hours prior to serving and cupcakes out 1 hour prior so they come to room temperature. The frosting firms up in the fridge (because the butter goes hard) which is not very pleasant to eat! You need the frosting to come to room temperature so it’s creamy and soft again. It will soften faster than fridge-cold butter because the fridge-cold frosting is not as hard as butter.

So, now you know my secret frosting recipe. 🙂 I’ve been making it for years, relishing in how people who ordinarily shy-away from sky high mounds of frosting have dived into it after I assured them that it’s way less sweet and rich than typical frostings.
Tell me what you think if you try it! – Nagi x
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My Secret Less-Sweet, Fluffy Vanilla Frosting
Ingredients
- 5 tbsp flour , plain/all purpose
- 1 cup white sugar , regular/granulated (can reduce to 1/2 cup, Note 1)
- 1 cup milk, warmed using any method , full fat best (but even 0% fat works)
- 1 1/2 tsp vanilla extract
- Pinch of salt
- 225g / 1 cup unsalted butter , softened but not too soft! (Note 3)
Chocolate Frosting option:
- 1/4 cup cocoa powder, unsweetened (Dutch processed best, if you can)
Instructions
Thickening Roux:
- Place flour and sugar in a large saucepan over medium heat. Cook, stirring constantly, for 30 seconds.
- While whisking constantly, slowly pour the milk in (this ensure it’s lump free).
- As the milk gets hotter, it will start to thicken – stir constantly so the base doesn’t catch.
- Cook until the mixture thickens in a thick, dolloping custard – see video for texture. TIP: Thicker texture = thicker frosting texture but won't make the frosting dense, it's still fluffy and spreadable but it just makes it "sturdier" with sharper edges when piped.
- Remove from heat and scrape into a bowl. Cover with cling wrap, pressing down onto the surface to prevent a skin from forming.
- Cool completely (I leave on counter for 20 min or so then refrigerate 30 min to speed up but don't let it get chilled, best at room temp to beat into butter). You can leave in fridge overnight but take it out 1 hour prior to using (to dechill – otherwise it won't mix well with softened butter).
Making the Fluffy Frosting:
- Place butter in a bowl and use either a handheld beater or stand mixer (with whisk attachment) to beat for 3 minutes until it's smooth and changes from yellow to very pale yellow, almost white.
- Now start whipping in the Thickening Roux. On speed 5 (medium), start adding the thick roux one heaped tablespoon at a time. Take about 1 minute to add it all.
- Once all added, add vanilla and salt, then whip for 2 to 3 minutes until you can see that it is still enough to hold peaks. Then it's ready to use!
Chocolate flavoured option:
- Beat in the cocoa powder at the end, just until mixed through.
Frosting cakes and cupcakes:
- Use it like any other frosting on cakes and cupcakes – either spread it on with a knife or put in a piping bag. You can pipe sky-high mounds and it will hold its form, as pictured on Vanilla Cupcakes in this post.
- See notes for storage / make ahead.
Recipe Notes:
- This frosting is best used straight after making.
- On cooler days (22C/71F or so), frosted cakes, cupcakes etc can stay out on the counter.
- On warmer days, it will need to be refrigerated – the butter is what will make the frosting droop. Take out of fridge 1 – 1.5 hrs before serving to bring so the frosting can soften (it firms up in the fridge due to the butter).
- The flour milk roux can be made the day before and refrigerated overnight, but then take it out of the fridge 1 hour prior to take the chill out of it, you want it at room temperature.
- Freezing – up to 3 months, thaw overnight in the fridge
Nutrition Information:
Life of Dozer
When he literally DIVES in to inhale a cupcake and gets a big splodge of frosting on his nose that is JUST out of licking range….

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Hi Nagi ! Cake is so moist and fluffy, I love this recipe❤️Like you said, different measures, eggs also small in Japan, so I changed to 3 small 👍
Thank you for recipe, look forward to seeing your smile and Dozer ❤️❤️
I made this last night for a cake and while I loved that it wasn’t as sweet as traditional buttercream, it tasted a bit like vanilla pudding to me :/
Should I just use less vanilla extract? I would be okay with adding a bit more sugar but didn’t know if that would help any.
Hi Melanie, it’s lighter and fluffier than buttercream without being as sweet – that’s the beauty of it. If you want to add more sugar and reduce the vanilla, I would go for a traditional buttercream recipe. N x
I dont usually leave comments but for this one, I had to. I don’t like buttercreams cause they are very sweet to my taste and hence end up not eating cake. So I looked for recipes but still sweet. I made yours and wow!!! The difference. I loved it! I thought it wasnt going to turn ok ut it turned out amazing and it’s true looks like a cream. I even had slices of cake which usually I never finish one. I made a coffee walnut cake and for this filling I added one tablespoon of coffee and it turned put amazing. Thank you fornshsring this. I want to make one with cream cheese for my carrot cake so I plan to try with this recipe to see how it goes. Thanks a lot!
Hiiiii…can u use this frosting for piping flowers??
Thank you so much for this recipe! I’ve made it the traditional way before with great success, but i was wondering if i could substitute milk and butter for a plant-based milk and vegan baking butter?
I am very sorry to give you only three stars, because it tasted AMAZING, but when i made it it was very watery, so i added to powdered suger, and cooled it and it was fine, but it had an interesting texture, i mixed it well, but there were a bunch of clumps, But thank you Nagi because the taste was amazing, and I LOVE all your other recipes especially the chicken!
Hi Benna – I’m sorry to hear you had trouble with this, I wish I could have been there to help troubleshoot! What do you mean when you say it was watery? I can’t envisage where something could go wrong to make it water.. you didn’t use melted butter did you? The lumps would have been caused because you added powdered sugar later to try to fix it. Did you add the flour?? That is also what thickens this frosting. – N x
Hi Nagi, your recipe sounds amazing! I’m looking for a less sweet alternative to buttercream frosting and came across your recipe. I was wondering if I can sub strawberry purée for the milk if I wanted a strawberry flavor (no vanilla extract). Would that work?
I did this fluffy icing on the same day I baked the Vanilla cupcakes, super amazing!
Thank you a million, Nagi!
Thank you Nagi for this dreamy frosting. It absolutely tastes amazing even reducing the sugar to 1/2 cup. It’s perfect for me. However, I’m a beginner baker and my frosting doesn’t come out smooth. It’s very uneven like tiny dimples. Did I over beat? I used a hand held mixer.
I was a little scared of trying this recipe but I’m so happy I made this. I’ve never made the Swiss meringue buttercream and I was in between the two. Ultimately this buttercream won because it looked easier and it’s amazing! It will now be my go to buttercream. As it still tasted a little buttery(I used lurpak unsalted)I kept beating it and that did the trick but the most important thing I could say is to buy a really good quality vanilla extract! That has made the big difference for me. Thank you for the tips.
i was wondering if this would work just as well with non-dairy milk and vegan butter (plus shortening to add stability)? i’m vegan, but i’m really excited to try this recipe!
I hope my reply can somehow helped. I’ve tried this with unsweetened almond milk and it worked great! I don’t know about the vegan butter but I tried using flora buttery instead of lurpak( I live in the U.K.) and it was fabulous, however I know flora buttery is not vegan.
Wow, thank you so much for this recipe. And a huge thank you also for taking the time (which I know was a lot of time) to share such a detailed post with pictures & video included. You even gave us a printable version. I haven’t made it yet but I am about to. And based on all of the reviews I know it will be a huge hit. I am making Christmas cupcakes for a Nursing Home near me. I know that they will all thank you for this fabulous recipe. Happy Holidays Nagi!!!
UPDATE. I made the frosting and I also used your cupcake recipe. WOW, the frosting is just spectacular. Your cupcake recipe was also perfection. I am so happy that I found you. I am a beginner baker and you helped to make it seem as if I have been baking for years. I will try many of your other recipes as well. THANK YOU Nagi!!!!! Happy Holidays!! 🙂
Wow! I’ve never made a frosting like this and it is beautiful. Pipes easily, tastes delicious and there really is enough to pipe sky high mounds on 12 cupcakes. Will definitely be saving this one!
oooo im curious to try this recipe! two questions- Can i use heavy cream instead of milk?
Also how does this frosting taste compared to swiss meringue buttercream (Vanilla)? I just tried making swiss meringue buttercream and it kinda taste still too sweet on top of a cupcake. might try italian meringue but came across this recipe and I am intrigued.
Hi Lucy – I haven’t tried with cream although I imagine it should be fine depending on the fat percentage. This frosting is less sweet – you’re going to love it! N x
Thank you for the wonderful frosting recipe! My cupcakes taste like they came from a high end bakery. I bet this recipe will taste even better next time when I remember to add in the vanilla and salt! Even without, the frosting is perfectly sweet, light, and fluffy!
I have been making this frosting for years. I use 1/2 cup butter & 1/2 cup crisco shortening. Better flavor.
I love hearing that!!! I first discovered this about 2 decades ago when I was hunting for a 100% smooth alternative to buttercream 🙂 Officially obsessed! N x
Hi I’m looking for a buttercream recipe for homemade wedding cake, and this looks really good! Do you think it’d work on a vanilla tiered cake? Thanks!
Hi Ruth, this is different to a buttercream, it’s not as stable. It would all depend on how many tiers the cake is and what the weather is like where you are – if it’s warm, I would stick to standard buttercream. N x
Hi Tessa, sounds like the roux wasn’t completely cool – it needs to be completely cool otherwise it will melt the butter. N x
My family loves this frosting and i have to stop my girls from taking a spoon and eating it out of the bowl! I do have a question. Can i substitute half the butter for cream cheese?